Sermon for Sunday December 30th, 2007
A YEAR OF NEW
BEGINNINGS by Bruce Ball
Romans 13:11-13:14
What is the one thing most people have in common at the new year? Most of us
make resolutions, don’t we? One young boy asked his father what his new years
resolution was, and his father said he was going to do everything possible in
the new year to make his mother very happy.
The boy asked his mother what hers was, and she said, “To do everything possible
to make sure your father keeps his resolution.”
Why do we make those things anyway? We make them because there are areas in our
lives we are either unhappy with, or areas in our lives we want to be better.
They did a survey a few years back and the number one resolution in America was
to lose weight.
A wife came into the bathroom to see her husband standing on the scales with his
stomach sucked in. She told him that sucking in his stomach wouldn’t make it any
better. He said it would, because if he didn’t suck it in, he couldn’t read the
numbers.
This is one of those very few times when everybody, believers and non-believers
alike, are going to be doing the exact same thing at the exact same time:
Leaving one place and going into another. Of course, I am talking about leaving
2007 and entering 2008.
The number “7” is the number for completion, and the number “8” is the number
for new beginnings. As we prepare to celebrate another new year, I want to talk
a little about how we should leave and how we should enter.
So, what are you planning on leaving behind as you enter the new year? When we
leave 2007, I think we should …
1. LEAVE IT COMPLETELY
When we pray, we often take our needs to the Lord and ask His help in dealing
with them. And then what do we do? Instead of leaving them with Him, we take
them back with us as we finish praying.
We need to learn to leave things where they belong. If 2007 really is a year of
completion for you, don’t you think you should learn to leave some things
completely?
What are some of the things we need to leave behind? I think it can be summed up
by just saying that anything in our lives that keep us from fully focusing on
the Lord should be left behind. Being a Christian means to always be going
forward. Have you ever noticed how we always talk about our walk? We talk about
our walk in life; our walk of faith; and walk with the Lord. By its very nature,
walking means moving forward. And as we move forward, we are always doing two
things: We leave one place and go into another.
As we leave, let us leave behind those parts of ourselves that do us no good.
Here are some suggestions as to what you might choose to leave behind.
- - LEAVE YOUR RESENTMENT BEHIND
Each of us resent something. We might resent something we have said and done, or
we might resent what someone else has said and done. But along with resentment
comes unforgiveness. And unforgiveness is a very dangerous thing to keep in our
lives.
Jesus said that if we forgive, God will forgive us. But if we do not forgive,
God will not forgive us. Now, we must understand that to forgive does not mean
the same thing as to forget. We cannot erase our memories, but we can erase our
resentment.
I would suggest that we just look at things from a different perspective.
Instead of looking at your resentment from the negative side, start looking at
it from the positive side. In other words, when you remember those things, as
you surely will, look at them as an example of what not to ever feel again.
Understanding where they will lead you should be enough encouragement to do so.
So forget those things which hurt you. And forgive those people who did or said
them. I like the old saying: “Look lovingly upon your enemies, for it is you who
have made them.” We choose to dislike people, based upon what we like or think.
We must realize that we are not the perfect examples, so we shouldn’t hold
others accountable to our standards.
Also, if you stoop low enough to begrudge others - - THEY WIN! So make a
decision to leave your resentment behind.
- - LEAVE YOUR WORRIES BEHIND
Worries are very much like rocking chairs. They give you something to do, but
they never take you anywhere while you’re doing it. We only worry about two
things: Things we can change and things we cannot change. Why waste time doing
something that not only hurts us and never helps us?
When we worry, it ends up taking over our ever thought and it becomes the
predominate thought of our lives. Yet, it is also worry that causes mental
illness, stress, and many other things that destroy our lives. Worry has killed
more people than hard work ever did. Worry is the cause of fear.
So, leave your worries behind as you enter the new year, too.
- - LEAVE YOUR FAILURES BEHIND
We try so hard to be the best we can be, but we don’t always succeed. And it is
in those times when we don’t succeed, that we get discouraged because we have
failed. But what have we failed in? We may not have achieved just what we
originally set out to achieve, but we haven’t failed.
The only time you fail is when you don’t try to do anything! We need to
understand that God has called us to have faith long before He ever called us to
achieve. We are called to be in Christ, and as long as we are in Him, we are
successful.
The ancient Israelites never seemed to get it right. They would all turn toward
God and worship Him and everything in their lives would drastically improve. But
after a couple of hundred years, they would turn their backs on Him again and
see doom visit them and their nation. But, we are told that God will turn our
failure into success, if we allow Him fully into our lives.
1 KINGS 8:33-34
‘When Your people, Israel, have been defeated by enemies because they sinned
against You, and when they turn back to You and confess Your name, then You will
hear from Heaven, and You will forgive their sins and bring them back to the
land of their forefathers.’
When we as a nation, or as individuals, have strayed from our Lord, we will find
failure in our lives. But when we turn back once again to Him, He will hear our
pleas and He will restore us to success, for He is a God of restoration.
As we leave 2007, we should pay close attention to the words of the Apostle
Paul.
1 CORINTHIANS 13:5-6
‘Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you
realize that Christ Jesus in you – unless, of course, you fail the test? And I
trust that you will discover that we have not failed the test.’
In other words, look deep within your heart. Is Jesus in you, or do you just
acknowledge Him as you live the way you desire? If you try to live for Him, the
way He wants you to live, then Jesus is in you and you have been a major
success!
So, as we head into a new year, make sure Jesus is firmly planted in your heart
so He goes with you, covering you in God’s wonderful grace and blessings. And
then choose to leave those things that distract you from realizing Jesus to the
fullest possible extent.
Imagine a trapeze artist swinging from one swing to another, high above the
ground with no net under him. As he reaches out to the next swing, what must he
do? He must let go of the one he is on. If he refuses to let go of the swing he
is on, will he ever be able to go to the next swing? Absolutely not. And in the
same way, we must let go of our old year before we can go purposefully into the
new year.
I said the number “7” is the number for completion. Let 2007 be fully completed.
Let it take its rightful place in the hallway of the past. Whether it was good
or bad, helpful or not, et it be complete by letting go of it.
And as you let go of the past, we must learn to ….
2. GRAB HOLD OF THE FUTURE
Each new year is a representative thing. It represents to us that there is a
whole range of new opportunities for us; an unlimited chance to have a better
life. At the start of every year, we see magazines publishing predictions on how
they think the world will be in the upcoming year. Some of these predictions
have been accurate, but most have fallen way short of being true.
One such prediction was that in the 21st century, technology would be so
advanced that the world would not work more than about 20 hours a week. I think
we can all agree that prediction missed the mark by a mile.
It seems that, no matter how far advanced technology gets, we just keep getting
busier and busier. Someone said that the merry-go-round of life has gotten so
fast that we now have no chance of stepping off. If that is the case, we need to
go into our tomorrows with as much help as possible.
How do you think we will fare in the new year? Will it actually be a year of new
beginnings for us? Will we have the wherewithal to analyze ourselves honestly,
so that we will know what areas to leave behind and what things to bring with
us? We need to be very wise as we step through the doorway of time.
One of the best suggestions along this line is found in –
EPHESIANS 5:15-17
"Be very careful, then, how you live - not as unwise but as wise, making the
most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be
foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is."
If we are going to make the best of the future, we need to understand a few
things. Thing first thing we need to really get a grip on is that ….
- - OUR TIME ON THIS EARTH IS LIMITED
PSALM 90:10 states, (New International Reader’s Version)
‘We live to be about 70. Or we may live to be 80, if we stay healthy. But all
that time is filled with trouble and sorrow. The years quickly pass, and then -
- we are gone.’
Our lives seem so long – to us. But in reality, they are so very short.
Considering that, wouldn’t it to us good to make sure that we use 2008 as a time
to really get right with the Lord? I am talking about getting totally sold out
for Jesus, and stop worrying about what our friends, neighbors, and co-workers
might say to us for doing so!
What seems like forever to us is only a blink of an eye. The psalmist writes
that our life lasts no longer than the vapor of our breath; it is here and then
it is gone.
Two teenagers who are in love can sit in a car talking and an hour only seems
like a minute to them. However, that same hour seems like an eternity to their
parents.
A magazine ran an article about a new clock they have that keeps track of how
much time we have left to live. It calculates an average life span of 75 years
for men and 80 years for women. So, for a mere $100 you can program your gender
and age into the clock and it will tell you how much time you have left.
That is going to the extreme, but we are told in the Bible to keep track of our
days. Now, that doesn’t necessarily mean to know when you are going to die, but
to know your time is limited and it is your responsibility to make the most of
it for the Lord.
If I live to the ripe old age of 75, I have nearly 5,300 days left. That seems
like a lot, but you see it in it’s real context when you consider I have already
lived a little over 31,000 days. So, in the limited time I have left, what I
should be looking at more than anything else is what – what can I do for the
Lord while I am still here?
We have such a short time here in this life, but it is on that short time that
all of our eternity will depend. Therefore, I think any sane person would choose
to take personal analysis of themselves and figure out what areas of their lives
do them more harm than good; make a choice to leave them behind as they step
forward into a new year of opportunities the Lord has given us; and to grab hold
of this future with all the gusto we have, knowing it, too, shall pass and come
to a “quicker than we are ready for” end.
We must also prioritize so that we …
- - DO NOT LOSE WHAT WE HAVE TO OVERLOAD
It is estimated that the average doctor must read over 200 medical articles each
month, just to keep up with all the new changes and procedures? That comes out
to an average of nearly 70 articles a month. Of course, there is no doctor who
has that kind of time, and because they don’t, many doctors feel absolutely
overloaded. They feel this way because they are expected to do something they
cannot do.
How many times do we hear that, because somebody was so stressed from overload,
they snapped or had a melt down? Have you ever heard of anyone having mental or
emotional problems because they had everything under control?
We must be sure that we have our priorities set in order and that we realize
which things must be done when, so we don’t get overloaded in 2008.
ECCLESIASTES 3:1-2 reminds us,
‘There is a time for everything. There’s a time for everything that is done on
earth. There is a time to be born, and a time to die.’
And, as one preacher friend of mine likes to say, ‘There is a time to plant, and
a time to be planted.’
Time management is not as difficult as it first appears. List all the things you
have to do. Then, go back over them, assigning a number to each thing on your
list, with #1 being the most important and on down the line from there.
Then make another list, listing each of the prior items in their numerical
order, starting with #1. Now you have the most important things in your life
already written down before you, and all you have to do is to figure out about
when you will do them and how long you will spend doing them. For instance, if
prayer is on your list (and I surely hope it is), write down daily, and either a
time period, or a total amount of time that you are going to spend in prayer.
So, let me recap what we have so far.
As we go into the new year, we should leave those things we consider failures in
our lives. They might consist of bad personality traits to a doubt that God can
or will help us. No matter what it is, if it cannot help you in the future,
leave it in the past.
We must go into our new year with our eyes wide open so we can grab hold of
everything God is giving us. And that means to pay attention to Him, not just
giving Him that occasional thought in passing. We can only do that if we realize
our time is limited, so we have to prioritize to keep from getting bogged down
in overload.
But there is a third thing we must do if we are going to use 2008 as a year of
new beginnings and become as successful in everything we need to do.
We must …
3. KNOW WHAT THE LORD’S WILL IS FOR US
Again, quoting the Apostle Paul, he says for us "...to not be foolish, but
understand what the Lord’s will is."
I am assuming, that since you are in church today, you realize that you need the
Lord in your life. And I am hoping that you really believe that your
relationship with Jesus is more important than anything else in your life.
I am also in prayer that this knowledge you have will mean that you will be in
church even if there is a kickoff at 10:00 am on Sundays, or even if you did
make a bad choice and stay out really late on Saturday night.
Know that the Lord never says for you to be comfortable. He does, however,
expect you to focus on Him and not things of this world. To do this, you must be
F.A.T. Let me explain.
You must be FAITHFUL. How faithful are you to Jesus Christ? Are you faithful
just when it is convenient to do so, or are you faithful even when it isn’t? I
have talked about giving your offering from a sacrificial standpoint. If I have
a lot of money and give it from comfort, it doesn’t mean as much as if somebody
else can barely afford to give, but gives as much as they can plus a little
extra. Why? Because they had to sacrifice something for the Lord when they gave,
and I didn’t.
That is being faithful to Jesus. You focus on Him and do things for His glory,
even when it is an inconvenience to you to do so.
You must be AVAILABLE. How available are you? Do you go to church when it is
convenient to do so or just when you aren’t tired? Or, do you go to church even
when you are tired and would rather be doing something else? Do you reach out to
others only if you know them, or even when you don’t know them? In other words,
are you really available to do what God wants you to do?
And you must be TEACHABLE. Are you willing to listen to me or some other person
in authority tell you what you should be doing for Jesus, or do you get
irritated and quit listening? I can tell you that for most of my adult life, I
took offense when a preacher or teacher tried to tell me I was not doing what I
should have been doing for God’s glory.
But that is Satan using your self-will and pride to keep you away from the Lord.
My dad used to say it like this: Listen to all advice you can get. Then, analyze
it and study it. Discard what will not help you and hang on to dear life to that
which will help you.
To be a Christian who is walking forward for the Lord and not just sitting in
one spot, claiming the miracles of Christ, we need to be F.A.T. (Faithful,
Available, and Teachable.) Are you?
Life is what happens to you as you are focused on your dreams. Dreams are fine,
but don’t let them rob you of your life. And keep your life in Christ, so that
you truly can be – all you were meant to be.
If I can close with just one thought, let me read to you what Paul said in –
ROMANS 13:11-14 (The Message Version - paraphrased)
‘… make sure that you don’t get so absorbed and exhausted in taking care of all
your day-by-day obligations that you lose track of the time and doze off,
oblivious to God. The night is about over, and dawn is about to break.
Be awake and aware of what God is doing! We can’t afford to waste a minute, must
not squander these precious daylight hours in frivolity and indulgence, in
sleeping around or in bickering and grabbing everything in sight.
Get out of bed and get dressed! Don’t loiter and linger, waiting until the very
last minute. Dress yourselves in Christ, then be about His work while you can!’
You now have a choice. You can go into the new year, taking everything with you,
being dulled to the need of changing some things, or you can go into the new
year trying your best to make sure the past is the past and the future is for
God.
But to do so requires some very honest thinking on your part. You can no longer
ignore things because you have now been made aware. And when you are aware of
what God wants, you become accountable for doing them.
I want to help you go into your year of new beginnings, using it as that – a
year of brand new beginnings, of having new opportunities, and a year of new
hope. Will you let me do that by coming forward this morning?
God wants to give you a “do-over” for 2008. Will you accept it?